Say It With Flowers
In my early 20’s I worked for Fisher’s Flowers in Windsor. I was a driver. It was a good job but got a bit crazy on Valentine’s Day and Mother’s Day!
The catch phrase for FTD (‘Florists Transworld Delivery’) was ‘Say It with Flowers”. The catch phrase reminds us that there are ways to express our feelings that don’t involve words. Words can be good but our actions can also communicate powerful feelings to others. FTD tells us that we can express our love for someone, that we are thinking about them, that they are important to us, through flowers.
One of the powerful emotions to communicate to others is love.
The Scripture story we gather around this Sunday, the 5th Sunday of Lent and the celebration of Baptism, is John 12:1-8. Read the passage.
Love is in the air and the one who is expressing her love, Mary, uses no words.
Mary has a deep love of Jesus and expresses this love by anointing his feet for burial using costly nard and then wiping his feet with her hair. No words are exchanged between Mary and Jesus. And yet Mary’s love is expressed through the anointing and the room is full of the perfume. Love indeed is in the air.
At the heart of life is giving and receiving love. Sometimes we express or receive love using words and sometimes we express or receive love through actions. One way is not necessarily better than the other. The important thing is that love is expressed.
It takes a life time to learn how to show and receive love.
We are all learners when it comes to love.
Others teach us how to show and receive love.
In our story Mary shows her great love of Jesus. Judas Iscariot judges Mary’s action as a total waste of money, money that could have made a much bigger difference by giving it to the poor. Voices within or without will sometimes question our acts of love and devotion. What were you thinking?
But perhaps expressions of love are less about thinking and more about responding from the heart, responding with gratitude. Mary’s loving anointing of Jesus’ feet is her response to how Jesus has blessed her, befriended her and given her life purpose and meaning and joy. In life, God initiates the love and our invitation is to respond in kind, with acts of love expressed from the heart and expressed with deep gratitude.
In this 40 day Season of Lent God may be showing us how to love.
Rev. Lloyd